Compliments are a tricky business. For many people it’s a mine field where ‘vanity’ or ‘conceit’ could explode at any given moment. In the past I’ve fumbled responses to sincere compliments. “This old thing” or “don’t mention it, any passerby would have prevented nuclear meltdown and saved the kitten” or other negating comments are my stock in trade. Until…

“That shirt is fabulous, you look amazing” My French co-worker purred her response “Thank you. I love wearing this shirt. Now my report…”

Wait. She just accepted a compliment without self-depreciating. And she just commanded the respect of all those in the room for her work. My preconceptions shattered all around me. It’s simple. Accept compliments graciously.

This is part of my 101 Ways to Live series (follow the link to read the original post). Life’s to short to worry about how you react to a compliment. Just say “thank you” and move on. If you feel inspired to compliment back, feel free. Don’t make things more complicated than they need to be.